Friday, June 13, 2025

February 2025

 


Luke and Hannah have been trying out some two man stunts and some of them are pretty good.


I tried to make Easter more meaningful this year, so I painted a WHOLE lot of these empty tomb pictures to give away as presents.


The kids like joining JM and I on our nightly walks. They hurry ahead so that they have time to race around the empty church parking lot.



Luke, practicing more of his selfies...


Each empty tomb picture was painted again and again, so they are each unique. I probably painted about 15 of them, but didn't take pictures of all of them.



We have a very large and wonderful youth program in our ward. I've been serving in the youth program for about 3 years, JM about 5, I think our time is coming to an end.



Hannah excelled at her dance competitions this year. Her dances earned the top scores in all three competitions, as well as best overall and judges choice.





Joshua rarely takes pictures. For some reason he went through a phase recently where he took random pictures of himself with me in the background going about my chores.




For two years in a row, Kade Rollins has asked Hannah to be his Valentine. He's a sweet young man that Hannah has had a crush on for YEARS and YEARS. He made her day.


A throwback to when Cade and Caleb were little. They've been best friends since they were in nursery together.


January 2025

I taught several painting classes with my friends, Deb, Suggy, and Dae, and my mom.


Michelle had a birthday and we dressed as characters from the wild west for a game.





We celebrated Christmas in January with the McAvoy side because Mommom, Dad, and Jessica spent Christmas in Utah.



I guess the genetics show strong in this picture.







A girl asked Luke for a picture and he stressed about it because he determined he doesn't know how to take a good picture.


Caleb and Cade have started Tackle Football with the Special Forces.



My friend, Lori, and her daughter, Avery happened to see Hannah at her dance studio #itwouldbeweirdifwedidn't


Hannah and Jazmine used to look like twins, but much to Hannah's dismay, Jazmine has grown considerably taller.


 

Sunday, January 12, 2025

A Metaphor About a Moose, and a Hike

For some reason, a life experience from nearly 20 years ago keeps coming to the forefront of my mind. It keeps trying to unveil a gospel principle to me in the form of a silly, yet true, story. I will record my thoughts here for future generations. 

Many years ago, although it seems like not so many years ago, I went on a night hike with my new husband and my new family. We hadn't been married for too long, and it was a fun, care-free time full of late nights and hangouts. There were countless hours of "girl football", and countless picnics. None of us had kids yet, we were still in college, and we were really good friends. One night, we got the idea to go hiking. Hiking Mt. Timp at night time seemed like a great adventure. 

We started making preparations. We needed some flashlights, snacks, and water, and really, that was all. We were young, what could possibly go wrong? However, I started to become nervous that we would meet a bear or a moose in the dark. I kept repeating these anxieties, and my new husband did what any good husband would do--he told me to call my dad. So, at a gas station, as we loaded up on snacks, I called my dad in Arizona. He told me, and I quote, "you've got a better chance at winning the lottery than you do at running into a moose or a bear on that mountain". Then, he added, "but... if you do run into a moose at this time of year, you're pretty much dead, because they've got bad attitudes." Considering the fact that I have never played the lottery before, and would never play the lottery, I was pretty safe. I did pressure Jon Mark into buying a 99 cent pocket knife at the register before heading out--just in case. 

So, there we were on that mountain. We hadn't hiked for more than a couple of hours before my sister in-law, and I, began to get very anxious. When she realized she didn't have her inhaler, we decided that that was as good of an excuse as any to get off the mountain. We convinced the men that we ought to head back down. That's when our flashlights started to give out. To conserve batteries, we turned them off and began our descent in complete darkness. It was getting spookier by the minute. I don't know how long we had walked in the dark, but because of the narrowness of the trail, we walked in a straight line, Michelle and I, sandwiched between the men. I was second in line, which is only an important detail if you happen to remember what my dad said, "if you do run into a moose, you're probably dead because they've got bad attitudes." For not long after that thought ran through my head, my brother in-law stopped in front of me and began to protectively push me back. Then, he turned the flashlight on and directly in front of us was a large bull moose. It was so close that I could have reached out my hand and touched him. He was staring straight at us and he was blocking the trail. I panicked. Hoping he didn't know I was there, I pressed myself up against the mountain and began to bury myself in leaves. I was content to hide for as long as needed. I looked at Jon Mark and with a flick of his wrist, he opened that .99 pocket knife and he was ready to go head to head with the moose if need be. We sat there in a staring contest with the moose for who knows how long. It was a long time. After prayer, and tears on my end, we decided to shine the flashlight in the eyes of that moose (hoping he wouldn't be able to see around it) and we snuck right past him. We made it safely down the mountain, and at 1am I called my dad and woke him up to chew him out. 

This is where the metaphor comes in. Life is an adventure. Like the trek up Mt. Timpanogoes, life can be both exhilarating and exhausting, mundane and exciting. Our lives can be moving along at a steady pace with everything lining up just fine, and then just like that moose, adversity and hardship come out of nowhere and jump out in front of us, forcing us to face it head on.

A few questions come to mind... How prepared are we when the trials do come? Who are you in this metaphor? Is your light dimming? Or have you consistently done all of the little things to make your light shine brightly? Have we been consistent with temple attendance, scripture study, and prayer. Do we pay our tithing and seek to minister to those around us? Do we use the tools available to us to strengthen our testimonies and fortify our faith, or do we hide and cower crippled by fear? If we do stand ready to fight our spiritual battles, do we stand ready with a .99 cent pocket knife, or do we face our hardships with the full armor of God, walking alongside Christ and yoking ourselves to Him? 

Ephesians 6:11-18 

11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;

15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;

16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:

18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;

Thankfully in this story, our situation was blessed and we made it safely off the mountain in spite of our lack of preparation. But, Heavenly Father wants more for us in our trek through life. He wants us to be prepared and with our full armor of righteousness fastened securely around us. He wants us to learn and grow through it all, and then lift those around us. He wants our eyes wide open as we faithfully participate in the work of salvation.  



Friday, January 10, 2025

A Good Week...

 It was a great week last week. Luke was ordained a teacher, he received his patriarchal blessing, was called to serve in his class presidency, and Hannah was able to go through the temple to do baptisms for the first time. 

It's always special when a child of mine receives their patriarchal blessing. I catch glimpses into who they were before mortality. Luke was a very faithful servant who was valiant in the cause and was reserved for this day and time. It sounds like he will have many opportunities to serve in leadership roles in the church. I'm not sure if I am supposed to share too much, but the patriarch delivered the blessing with such a great spirit about him. I know that Heavenly Father knows, and loves, and trusts Luke. Luke was very prepared for his blessing. He studied it out and prayed about it, and he came to me and told me that he had had a spiritual experience and he now knew that the 100% the Lord wanted him to get his blessing. The patriarch told me that he had given blessings to other 13 year old's before, but nothing like giving Luke his blessing. He said that giving Luke his blessing stood out to him. He was different, and it was because of how prepared he was to receive it. Luke is a valiant soul, and he has a lot of great and wonderful blessings ahead of him. 

Hannah was also so prepared and excited to go and do temple baptisms. She attended temple prep with Bishop Rollins. When I asked her if she was nervous, she said that she wasn't nervous because Bishop had already told her everything she needed to know and even drew her a diagram on the whiteboard of where to go. She and I had a really great conversation about the temple and the great meaning behind the ordinances. It was a wonderful experience to be inside the temple with my children (except Caleb who is too young), with Jon Mark, and with my parents. Jessica and my in-laws weren't feeling well and couldn't go. I sat and watched Hannah, wide-eyed and smiling as she watched others get baptized before her. She looked so pure and holy, and just eager to be in the Lord's house participating in His work. She was so much more prepared than I was. She is a special girl. She is kind and sweet, a peacemaker, and a joy. She's got great things ahead of her. I hope the world is sweet to her and doesn't take for granted her goodness. Mercedes was so sweet in the temple and tried to make it even more special for Hannah. I can always count on Mercedes to help prepare Hannah and keep her safe and comfortable. They have a tender relationship. They truly love being with each other. They are best friends. Sometimes it means that I have to share my role. Because of the age difference, sometimes Mercedes takes care of Hannah as more of a mother than a sibling. I learned quickly in the temple that I would have to share my role with Mercedes. Mercedes was excited to show Hannah everything their was to know about doing baptisms. She held her hand and answered her questions. And we laughed together when Hannah came out of the locker with her jumper on backwards. I'm thankful for their relationship.  

Sons and Their Funny Sayings

 Luke and Nathan Carpenter were riding home from a wrestling tournament with me. 

Luke: I'm going to marry someone who is kind, strong in the church, and hot.

Mom: Happy, affectionate and temple worthy.

Nathan and Luke together: And... good-looking.

Luke: Yeah, and I'll marry her while I am still in school.

Nathan: That's good, then you'll know she's not just after your money.


Joshua was trying to help Caleb with his homework and Caleb was being quite difficult. Joshua kept saying to Caleb that he was trying to help him, listen and focus, he's trying to help. Caleb got more and more frustrated and was definitely not listening. Exhausted, Joshua turns to me and says, "this must be what God feels like when we go through trials."


Luke and Barrett had W Rizz (charisma) at Elevate. Here are some of my favorite lines that they used on a few different girls. 

"Are you a keyboard? Because you're my type."

"Ouch, I hurt myself falling for you."

"Did it hurt falling from heaven?"

"Did you fart? Because you blew me away."

Apparently the two girls were receptive and tried to flirt back by throwing foam blocks. Luke told me that he likes to practice his rizz in public places because if it goes badly, then he won't ever have to see them again.