Friday, August 17, 2018

We're Alive and Well in August!!

Hannah had a bad case of 5th's disease. These are her rosy "princess" cheeks. 


Luke and Joshua are excited about football. After Luke tried on his gear, he wanted a picture taken. I told him to smile but he shook his head and said, "no! I want it to be a football picture. You don't smile in football pictures."


Luke made this picture for Michelle. Michelle is holding Gavin in a dragon's nest.


Cubby drew all over himself and said he was a bear. I gasped, he cried, I laughed and took a picture.


Jon Mark and I thought it would be funny to have stinky faces or disgusted faces as bathroom decor. So, I tried and tried. I kept trying to look too cute. Mine aren't as good as Jon Mark's. :)







I have 4 kids in school this year. I just have my buddy Caleb at home with me. I miss my little kids so much, I forget that they aren't that little anymore. They all got the teachers they wanted. Joshua got Ms. Flandi again because she decided to move up to 5th grade. Mercedes has Perkins, Luke has Maxwell, and Hannah has Boos. Hannah really wanted to wear her ballet leotard to meet the teacher. I let her because I figured it was kindergarten. She got many compliments on it.




Mercedes got her ears pierced! She almost chickened out, but ultimately she braved it and is happy with how they look. She picked out pearls because they are apparently June's birthstone.



That day we went was a really hot day. I ended up having to park a block away and tow the littles with me in the sun until we found the store. Then, Mercedes was chickening out which was a little stressful, then she banged someone's car door, and then I decided to traverse Costco on a Saturday... big mistake. I was already a bit stressed out when I found the perfect shady parking space at the front near the entrance. I turned on my blinker and waited for the car that was occupying it to back out. Then, out of nowhere, another car sped towards it and snaked it from me. I was surprised by how mad it made me. I told Mercedes that that lady was so rude and that I was going to roll down my window and tell her how rude she was. I rolled it down, I waited for her to get out of her car and then I felt my heart soften. I remembered something my parents used to tell me-- respond in love to all situations. So, I rolled my window back up, I turned to Mercedes and said, "I can't control the way others treat me. But, I can control the way I respond. I'm not going to tell her she was rude, instead we're going to go park over there and respond with love." I felt as though the Holy Ghost had helped me teach my daughter a greater lesson that day than the one I would have been teaching by my example had I done what I had originally wanted to do. I became thankful for my Savior, who, no matter how many times I mess up, always reaches out to me and responds with love. I want to be more like Him.





Hannah is really into posing for pictures with her leg popped out. She also loves it when I curl her hair so she can look like Mercedes.



First day of school picture.



Cub is my little companion as we sit in bumper to bumper traffic waiting to get the kids from school. He's not always this happy, in fact, most of the time he is quite grumpy as we wait and wait.


Mercedes likes it when I curl her hair too, although her hair is naturally pretty curly, she likes the ringlets.


Jon Mark got me a new comforter. I love the way it looks!


Jon Mark bought the kids this tackle dummy. It is supposed to teach them the correct and safe way to tackle. It also makes a good bed. :)



Mercedes likes to dress up the little girls.




Joshua had a good birthday. His party is on Saturday. It's his first friend party. He told me to blend into the wall. I really want to buy myself a spandex tan colored body suit so I can literally blend into the wall as a joke. He also got the Gizmo Gadget. It's a phone watch that can store 10 numbers, I can track all of his usage of it and his GPS location. But, the best part about it is he sends me little "I love you's" throughout the day.



Cub came downstairs like this and I thought it was so cute. The kids (especially Joshua) have been pretty good about waking up and getting ready for the day. Joshua is proving to be so mature and responsible this way. Luke needs me to snuggle him in his bed as he wakes up. Mercedes is generally awesome about waking up cheerfully. Hannah needs me to hold her hand as she walks down the stairs in the morning because she likes that.


Other Updates and Snip-its:

Some of these I may have already shared. Oh well!

Jon Mark: He's been into golfing and has gotten pretty good! He likes to go to the driving range and he also likes putting around on the soccer field. He practices at night time while we talk. He's also getting really buff. He's been doing push-ups and weights to increase his chest and arms. It's really the only kind of exercise he can do right now because of his injury. He wishes he can do more cardio, but for now he's buffing up and it shows. 

Me: I have been having some problems with my knees recently. I had a visibly swollen knee for a couple of days. Then, the swelling left my knee and moved into my calf and ankle. That's weird. So, the dr. said that he didn't want me to exercise until he can take a look at it in person and clear me for exercise. My appointment is in a week. Taking a week off from all exercise but walking sounds awful to me! I'll try to comply, but I love my exercise.

Joshua: He is so patient and loving. The other day, Lily and Cub found his birthday present I had hidden (it was from Grandma and Grandpa Haws). They ripped the box open and scattered all of the pieces that he was supposed to use to build a star destroyer (Star Wars). Then, Lily pooped ALL over the bedroom. Caleb knew he was in trouble when I followed the smell and found what he and Lily had done. He kept saying he was sorry. Joshua hugged him and told him he wasn't mad. Then, another day, Cub and Lil had locked the door and destroyed several of his lego creations. This time I could see Joshua trying to not cry. He was very upset about it. I lectured Cub and he said, "But, Joshua is not mad at Cub." Joshua kept telling Caleb he wasn't mad because Caleb was concerned, but I could see Joshua crying. Cub held fast to the hope that Joshua wasn't mad. Joshua responds with love and kindness. He's a good example of that. Joshua can beat JM in Mario Cart. He also has taken an interest in reading Jon Mark's old Physics book from college. After reading about elements, he structured what his own element would look like once it was discovered. The other day while driving home from Speed Camp, Luke was talking about the upcoming football season. I tried to help him with his expectations about playing on the gold team because he hadn't played a full real season of football yet, so he'd probably be on the green team at first. Joshua stopped me and said, "no, think positive! Luke, you will be on the gold team. Work really hard, impress the coaches, and you will be on gold for sure." Joshua got his AIMS scored back from school the previous year and they were really high scores. He had a couple of 100% in science and history. He was proud of himself and declared, "I'm going to BYU!!" I said that he still had to get good grades. He said that they'd take one look at his test scores and declare him a genius. I told him that if he didn't get really good grades then they'd declare him a genius and say it was too bad he never learned how to use his genius ability to get good grades. Joshua promised he would try really hard this year to turn in all of his assignments and stay organized so that his grades would be higher.

Mercedes: Mercedes is fascinated by pioneer stories. She and I watched 17 Miracles together. She is comfortable when I cry my eyes out in movies and while listening to music. Sometimes she and Luke cry right along with me. They're sensitive. She gave a good FHE lesson on pioneers and bore a good testimony about them afterwards. She looked us in the eyes and spoke confidently. Mercedes also recently got a concussion. I was trying to teach her how to dive into the pool by assisting her on the side of the pool. She freaked out, I was still holding on to her. She went to jump into the pool and I tried to grab her back. Anyway, she hit her head on the way down. I felt so bad. She puked later that day and had a pretty bad headache. That makes 3 out of the five to have gotten concussed. That's not good. Joshua fell off of Nick's shoulders onto the pool deck, Caleb fell off of a chair onto the tile, and now Mercedes.

Luke: Luke is a sympathy crier. The other day Mercedes had gotten her feelings hurt and was crying about it while telling me about the incident. Luke starts crying. I ask him why, and he says, "When someone I care about gets their feelings hurt, it hurts my feelings too because I don't want them to be sad." Luke is very close to the spirit and can feel it often. A song was playing on the radio that had a good religious message to it. I was explaining the message to him and he started to cry and told me he felt the spirit. He bore a good testimony in church. He talked about how we can be good missionaries now and he told an experience he had when his friend was using the Lord's name in vain and how he asked him to say oh my goodness instead. He said that he was being a missionary when he did that. Then, he read Elder Anderson's apostolic promise about missionary work.  

Hannah: She loves her teacher and she loves school. She still comes home grouchy. It's a long day for a 5 year old. But, she wakes up happy and excited to go to school and see her friend's Alex and Harper. I have no doubt that she has friends. She is a bubbly happy thing and I miss her. She loves playing hide and go seek as a family. She loves playing hard to get when you try to kiss her. She does push in her kisses though and enjoys getting tucked in. She's my reminder child. She reminds me about everything. She reminds us to bless the food, to ask how she served Jesus at bed time, she reminds me to curl her hair. She is a cautious swimmer and doesn't swim too far past the step although I know she is capable. 

Cubby: Cubby likes being the center of my attention now that all of the kids are at school besides him. He still says he wishes he could go to school too, but I tell him not to rush me. I'm not ready for him to go to school yet. I still need him home with me. The other day we were at the dinner table and I said something about a scheduling conflict and how if we did it this way instead then I could kill two birds with one stone. Later, like ten minutes later, Caleb looked at me concerned and asked me if I hated birds and that's why I wanted to kill them. Joshua had to remind me of what I had said because I had no idea where he got that from. For a few days after, every time we'd be driving in the car he'd tell me not to run over the birds or hit the birds because he knew I hated birds. Silly kid!




Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Tidbits to Remember

Joshua: Joshua was so excited about Jm's surprise birthday party. He wanted everything to be perfect. As Jm was walking in the door, he realized that no one had hid the donuts. So, he sneakily did it right as Jon Mark was walking into the room. He's also quite the athlete these days. To earn another donut, he ran a mile in 100 degree weather, he along with Sawyer, Luke, and Barrett.

Mercedes: I already posted quite a bit about Mercedes in the previous post. She had a 9th birthday party. She's been hard on herself about her emotions. I try to explain to her that her emotions are big, but when controlled, she will be a force to be reckoned with. She's a self-reflective girl who repents really well. She's sweet and responsible, quite the rule keeper still.

Luke: He likes that he has big muscles. The other day in church his shirt was buttoned wrong. Jon Mark had to unbutton it to fix it. I leaned over and whispered, "Careful or the girls will see your muscles." Then, he smiled wryly and said, "I don't mind if the girls see my muscles." He's a good boy. The other day a kid from school called to talk to him on the phone. The kid kept using the Lord's name in vain. Luke, very kindly said, "please don't say that. Say, oh my goodness instead." The kid said he'd try not to but then he did it again. Still, nicely, Luke said, "you have a habit of saying that. You need to say oh my goodness instead." He is a leader and the other kids follow him. He helped Hannah today to learn her letters. He was patient with her. He was sad that Barrett couldn't play today because Sawyer was sick. We went and played at Vanessa's instead and that was fun.

Hannah: She likes to draw and she likes to jump on the trampoline. She draws me pictures a lot, just like how she used to give me shiny pebbles to let me know she was thinking of me. Today, I told her that she couldn't let her little cousins touch the new flower garland I made for their room. She said, "Jaz will listen to me. Lily might listen to me. I will try my hardest to get Evelyn to listen to me. I will say, do not touch this, my mom said we cannot touch this. But, she will probably not listen to me. I don't really know. John will not touch it because it is girly and he hates girly."

Caleb: He asks to fight with Jon Mark the moment JM gets home from work. He has to clear the whole floor first, and is a little OCD about it. He sure loves his dad time. He doesn't say "what... the... heck..." anymore. That's sad to me. It was so cute! He is very serious a lot of time and wants to be the boss of everyone. He likes to play rough. He doesn't like being called the bad guy. Sometimes Hannah will say, "you're bad" when he makes a mistake. He cries and says, "I am NOT bad Hannah!" He also says he's not a good guy because he is Caleb, or Cub depending on his mood. :)

Our Summer Month of June

I bought a water bottle with a lid specifically to prevent me from accidentally swallowing a fly. Our kids are always leaving the door open and flies come in. Well, as fate would have it, I left the lid off of my water bottle for about ten minutes the other day. A fly flew in and I didn't know it. I took a gulp, wondered what squishy thing was in my mouth. I chomped on it, fished the wing out from between my teeth before I realized what it was. I then spent a good deal of time almost vomiting in the sink. Jon Mark was laughing hysterically the whole time. The irony, I'm sure, is funny. 


  Here is what is left of the fly. Do you see it's guts coming out? Yeah, that was in my teeth. I have been traumatized.


Mercedes and Jm had a good time at the Father Daughter dance at the church. There was a dance contest and lots of laughter.


Jm and I had the opportunity of meeting with some of Jon Mark's old missionary friends. They were a lot of fun to get to know, so were their wives and kids. Jon Mark was quite popular on his mission, or so I was told. He took pictures of the friend's pictures.






Here is Mercedes in her gymnastics class. She is getting better and better. She and Hannah both love going to gymnastics. Today Mercedes was practicing her hand stands and handstand roll.


Oh, you know, just one of a hundred pictures I took trying to get all 5 kids to cooperate.


My niece Daisy was born to Nick and Bethany.


Joshua makes great cards! :)



A card I wrote for Hannah to Jm for Father's Day.


We threw a surprise party for Jon Mark's birthday. The kids were busy all day with decorating and preparations. They had so much fun planning it. We put paper down on the table so the guests could write Jon Mark a message. Mercedes took a long time writing a special note and drawing a special picture for him. She wanted a picture of it before I tossed it. You can't really see it though. Mercedes thought of the idea to throw him a party. She is a very thoughtful girl who feels all emotions in a BIG way.


We get creative on hot summer days. We filled up a small pool with toys and water and the kids jumped on the trampoline with water and ice. We've had a fun summer full of cousin play dates.



Mercedes was spoiled for her birthday. We had a good time bonding together with pedicures. She also got a cousin sleepover and party with no boys.


Hannah spent a lot of the pedicure feeling bored. I think she enjoyed it, but she kept asking when it was time to go home.


Mercedes got this beautiful tutu and these pretty ballet shoes. Like I said, she was spoiled. :)


I don't have many pictures of Joshua. He hides from the camera, unless he is wanting to annoy his sister. It was our 13th wedding anniversary this month. The kids wanted to try on my wedding tiara. They also insisted that I wear it the rest of the night. We celebrated with take out dinner and a family movie "Lost in Space". JM and I had gone on a date earlier and celebrated as well.



I feel like this picture needs a caption. I'm not sure what, but it's perfect for a caption. I was watching the movie and didn't know that the kids were taking my picture.


Luke won a spot in a race at speed camp. He always works so hard and the coaches like him. He was competing against much older boys, so he didn't win, but just being selected to participate made his day.



This is the Peterson's cousin Alivia who is best friends with Mercedes. She bought her a bff necklace.



A family that works out together, stays together. We prioritize exercise. My kids can all (except Cub) run at least a mile, Joshua more. Even Hannah can run a mile.





"Not as good as I once was, but I'm as good once, as I ever was". I was showing the girls how to do a leap, it was a video that I did a screen shot of. My leg isn't entirely straight, which back in the day I could do an inverted split, but it was fun showing the girls that at 36 years old, I'm not horrible. :)


We went pottery painting as a girl's night. I painted this plate. This picture is before it has been glazed.


Mercedes LOVES babies. This is baby Daisy.



Lindsay took our family picture. I'll post the originals soon enough.


My dad is great! I love that he lives close enough to come help me on a moments notice. Here he is trying to fix my garbage disposal. Prayer is what fixed it. :)


This is the girl's room. I made this garland out of felt with Lindsay's help. It took forever and someday I hope my girls know how much love went into their room.